I have consolidated my best tips for Disney with toddlers, compiled and discovered on this trip. You're welcome!
1. Go to Fantasyland first thing in the morning! You can stop to take a quick picture of the castle and then speed walk over to Peter Pan and Winnie the Pooh! We waited 5 minutes for each, and the wait keeps getting longer throughout the day. We were glad we hadn't invested too much time in Peter Pan because it got mediocre reviews from the one year old ( you know, he's never seen the movie.) He gave thumbs up to Pooh Bear though!
2. Use Photo Pass! They would just jump out of nowhere to snap a picture, scan your card (that I kept handy in my pocket) and you can access it online later. They will also use your camera to take a picture if you ask, but it has to have a strap.
3. Don't stay at Animal Kingdom Lodge unless you will be spending most of your time at animal kingdom, or unless your kids are obsessed with animals. The latter applies to us, so we were glad we stayed there, but it is not as convenient as some resorts that are closer or that are on the monorail line.
4. Get out of your head that you will be riding roller coasters. Get in your head that you will be meeting a lot of Disney characters.
5. If you have a smartphone, download the Undercover Tourist app (free!) It gives real wait times, tells you which rides have Fast Pass, and let's you pick favorites. Also tells you parade times.
6. Really, they have to see the light parade at Magic Kingdom. Jonah was wide eyed the whole time. We watched it from Liberty Square and it wasn't too crowded. We got there about 45 minutes early, ate some ice cream, and then some of the staff came around and played duck duck "Donald" with the kids. It was highly entertaining and one of our favorite parts of the trip! And I think Jonah enjoyed just hanging out for a few minutes and had no problem with the wait!
7. If you are flying and staying in a Disney resort, Disney will send you a special tag for your luggage so they can pick it up at the airport for you and send it straight to your room. Super convenient. They really try to help you out.
8. Take good nap breaks. We went back to the hotel for nap and had no idea how tired he was until he slept for 3 hours each afternoon! His best moments were right after nap and early in the morning.
9. Make dinner reservations if you want something special! We walked around for a while looking for food on the night I hadn't planned for. Also, make reservations for a character breakfast or lunch! A fun way to meet the characters and cheaper than dinner. (Jonah is a great eater, and he was way too star struck to worry about food when Mickey and Donald were around!)
10. Your child will probably have several temper tantrums. Remain calm. You're in the happiest place on earth, they will get over it soon.